How to Get Women Into Bed – It’s Not Going To Happen Without a Whole Lot of Sexual Tension

Are you wondering what it’s going to take for you to be able to spice up your dating and sex life? How many times have you been out on a date with a woman, thinking everything is going just right and you are going to be able to hook up for the night… and it doesn’t happen? This is something that most men have to go through and they usually end up feeling like that’s just the way their dating life is going to be and they better get used to it. What it that was not the case?

Before I get into what you can do to change that, you want to really understand that trying to get a woman into bed is really not as complicated as it usually seems. For most guys, all they had to do was to make a few little changes here and there… and it would have happened. If you think that you need to master the art of seduction to really be able to hook up, think again.

If you go back and replay most dating scenarios, there’s always one thing that seems to be lacking. Sexual chemistry. Two people sitting together in a nice restaurant can lead down one of two paths usually. One ends with a handshake, and maybe a polite peck on the cheek. The other can end up with you waking up to her the next morning.

So, how do you get there? What makes the difference?

Usually, the first date- the one that ends a polite peck on the cheek, was polite and nice the entire time. Seems like that would be the way to go, right? Well, not quite. The problem is, all that nice and polite talk resembles more the way two friends would get together. It doesn’t resemble the way that lovers would get together. There’s no electricity between two people when it is all nice and polite.
You need to have sparks between you and her, and sometimes that means that you need to be less ‘polite’ and more aggressive and playful.

If you were to base what really works on the things that you have been told, the things that are used to ‘court’ a woman… you probably wouldn’t get to go to bed with her until you put a ring on her finger. That may be fine for some, but if that’s not your cup of tea and you want to get some action, then you have to work on creating sexual tension and chemistry with a woman.

How do you do that?

First of all, bringing humor into the conversation will help to get you there. Most women feel awkward when they are on a date with a guy that they are just getting to know. Bringing in a little humor can help to relive that awkward feeling and make her feel a little more at ease, and even playful herself. From there, you need to tease her just a little. It does not have to be anything harsh, just something that will get a little bit of a rise out of her… but keep it playful.

More than anything, you want her to go back and forth with you.

If it’s only you creating the sexual tension, it’s not going to be as easy as it will be if you can get her going back and forth with you. You want to see her tease you back in the same, playful manner. That’s your sign that there is some ‘chemistry’ between you and her. When a woman says that there is a lot of chemistry between her and a guy, this is what she usually means.

Truth is, without that sexual tension going on, without her feeling a lot of ‘natural chemistry’ between you and her, your chances of getting her into bed with you are not very good. She may go out on another date with you, but you won’t get to see any action.

You don’t have to be mean, you don’t have to say things that you will regret or that will offend her to try and create sexual tension and chemistry with her. You do need to make things fun for her, though. You do have to take off that polite facade and be a little more ‘real. ’ Do that and you will be able to seduce women pretty easily and not have to go home alone. You will have someone along with you!